Why do we do what we do?
I've always been curious about people's
motivations and resistance.
It was at conversations, lectures and workshops
about human behavior that I started meeting professional coaches.
Over time, and over tea, one coach after
another commented on my natural ability do do what coaches are
trained to do: listen powerfully, support objectively and inspire
naturally.
I had been hosting creative get-togethers for years. Through
talking with different coaches, I started seeing how coach training
could influence my gatherings, grounding them in a genuineness,
an authenticity. Participants could now experience my events
as invitations to innovation, and as antidotes to life-on-autopilot.
I also realized that to become a coach,
to support people in actually getting what they want in life,
I would need to strengthen my integrity, doing what I say I'll
do when I say I'll do it. I committed to become a coach, and
staked my livelihood on it, so that it holds my own life to
a higher standard.
So I trained through Life
Purpose Institute, accredited through the International
Coach Federation (ICF).
I'm serving my second term on the Board of Directors for SF Coaches, the San Francisco chapter of the ICF.
And I'm always
continuing my training through, among others,
Coaches
Training Institute, Human
Awareness Institute, Landmark
Education and WholeBody
Wisdom.
I coach creatively - inspired by a lifetime
of adventure - from hosting interactive tours
of variety shows in abandoned buildings, to
investing a dozen years of participation within Burning
Man, a community of radical self-expression and self-reliance.
I imagine Albert Einstein wore a wry smile as he said
"we cannot solve our problems that
we have created
with the same thinking that created them in the first place"
As a kid, I crafted cardboard
scraps into everything from passenger planes for eggs, to robots
with flour-paste faces. As a teenager, I produced concerts in
my small town, so I could book my own bands. In my 20s, I wrote
magazine articles about fringe experiences, and created elaborate
experiences for groups of over 100 costumed guinea pig... oof,
uh... participants.
Now I meld powerful practices from my coach
training with my fascination for adventure and the freshest
ways to "know thyself." I invent my life as I move forward,
refusing to simply duplicate hand-me-down parameters from family,
friends or culture. I take on challenges differently, to get
different results.